

You sat me down again
Like I was the problem
Soft voice, tidy words
All the blame in cotton
You said I was "triggered"
Like that made it kind
But you kept the same hands
And left the bruise behind
You made my pain sound loud
Made your silence sound wise
Every hard thing I name
Turns into your alibi
You called it boundaries
I called it hiding
You called it self-care
I called it lying
You called it boundaries
To keep me outside
You say "I protect myself"
While you let me bleed dry
You learned all the right lines
From a book and a chair
Now you speak in soft loops
Like you vanish in air
"That's my truth," you tell me
"That's my limit, babe"
But you never say sorry
You just shape it that way
You made my grief sound small
Made your fear sound clean
Every time I reach for you
You turn it back on me
You called it boundaries
I called it hiding
You called it self-care
I called it lying
You called it boundaries
To keep me outside
You say "I protect myself"
While you let me bleed dry
Maybe restraint
Is just a pretty word
When it keeps you safe
And leaves me unheard
Maybe the line
Was never for peace
Maybe it was a fence
Built from your relief
You called it boundaries
I called it hiding
You called it self-care
I called it lying
You called it boundaries
To keep me outside
You say "I protect myself"
While you let me bleed dry
- Lyricist
Luvia Quern
- Composer
Theo Ashwin
- Producer
Jonah Selby
- Vocals
Luvia Quern

Listen to You Called It Boundaries by Luvia Quern
Streaming / Download
- 1
Too Close to Stay Myself
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- 2
Kindness with No Shape
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- 3
Close Enough to Believe
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- 4
Your Maybe Got Heavy
Luvia Quern
- 5
I Was Easy to Fade
Luvia Quern
- 6
The Distance Let Me Hope
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You Called It Boundaries
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- 8
A Room Without an Answer
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- 9
No Promise, Still Waiting
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- 10
I Let the Edges Go
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- 11
Loved Until I Blurred
Luvia Quern
Luvia Quern's debut album Loved Until I Blurred is a dream garage pop / soft shoegaze record about losing your edges inside a relationship that feels gentle, but never certain
Sweetly distorted guitars and hazy vocals wrap the quiet ache of something too soft to leave, but too unclear to trust