

I kept my hands in my pockets
Kept my words all neat
Thought if I stayed halfway distant
I could keep my heart complete
You stood there with your open face
Like rain on a borrowed coat
I had the whole world in my mouth
But I swallowed every note
And now I know
What I should have known
A gentle touch
Can still leave a bone
I learned the soft way late
I learned the soft way late
When I had you in my hands
I let the moment break
I learned the soft way late
I learned the soft way late
Now tenderness feels like home
After the door was shut and stayed
There’s a white mug by the sink
Still chipped where you set it down
I pass it like a warning sign
In a quiet empty house
The good things ask for timing
Not a promise from a man
I was slow with the truth of you
Too proud to understand
And now I know
What I should have known
A simple love
Can still go cold
I learned the soft way late
I learned the soft way late
When I had you in my hands
I let the moment break
I learned the soft way late
I learned the soft way late
Now tenderness feels like home
After the door was shut and stayed
If I could call you back
I’d speak in smaller words
I’d hold the hurtful edges
Till they didn’t hurt
I’d meet you where you were
Not where my pride had been
But time don’t circle back
It only walks you in
I learned the soft way late
I learned the soft way late
When I had you in my hands
I let the moment break
I learned the soft way late
I learned the soft way late
Now tenderness feels like home
After the door was shut and stayed
Soft way late
Too late to save
Soft way late
But not too late to change
- Lyricist
Ordell Saye
- Composer
Damon Elroy
- Producer
Malcolm Ashbourne
- Vocals
Ordell Saye

Listen to I Learned the Soft Way Late by Ordell Saye
Streaming / Download
- 1
Empty Vase by the Door
Ordell Saye
- 2
The Piano Played Too Long
Ordell Saye
- 3
The Wine Went Warm
Ordell Saye
- 4
Your Coat Stayed Upstairs
Ordell Saye
- 5
I Left My Ring on the Sink
Ordell Saye
- 6
The Flowers Came Too Late
Ordell Saye
- 7
Roses on the Passenger Seat
Ordell Saye
- 8
Your Name on the Reservation
Ordell Saye
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I Learned the Soft Way Late
Ordell Saye
- 10
No One to Give Them To
Ordell Saye
- 11
A Gentleman After the Leaving
Ordell Saye
A late-night soul album about a man who brought flowers instead of words, learning tenderness only after love was gone